A book for every woman who does it all
But She's
Not a Guy
Briefcase. Purse. Diaper bag. Breast pump. Toddler. Baby.
She checks every box, at work and at home, and the world still expects her to show up like she has nothing else to carry.
This is the book that finally says out loud what every woman has been quietly feeling.
Overwhelmed
Out of place
Unappreciated
Sucked In a vaccum
Directionless
NOTE: A faith-rooted read for women who give everything
A book for every woman who does it all
But She's Not a Guy
Briefcase. Purse. Diaper bag. Breast pump. Toddler. Baby.
She checks every box, at work and at home, and the world still expects her to show up like she has nothing else to carry.
This is the book that finally says out loud what every woman has been quietly feeling.
Overwhelmed
Out of place
Sucked In a vaccum
Directionless
Unappreciated
NOTE · A faith-rooted read for women who give everything
The story inside
Every woman knows the list by heart. She carries it from the office to the kitchen table and back again, and somehow makes it look effortless.
But behind the smile is a weight no one names: the meetings and the midnight feedings, the deadlines and the doctor's visits, the quiet ache of wondering when it will finally be her turn.
She was never meant to carry it the way the world insists she should. Because she's not a guy, and she was never supposed to be.
This book isn't about doing less.
It's about focusing on your purpose.
The story inside
Every woman knows the list by heart. She carries it from the office to the kitchen table and back again, and somehow makes it look effortless.
But behind the smile is a weight no one names: the meetings and the midnight feedings, the deadlines and the doctor's visits, the quiet ache of wondering when it will finally be her turn.
She was never meant to carry it the way the world insists she should. Because she's not a guy — and she was never supposed to be.
This book isn't about doing less.
It's about focusing on your purpose.
What's inside these pages
A mirror, a deep breath, and permission to finally exhale.
The weight you've never named
Why the invisible load women carry is so heavy, and how naming it out loud changes everything.
Setting down the guilt, not the dream
How to release the constant feeling of falling short without letting go of the life and work you love.
The faith that holds you together
The quiet strength and grounded faith that steady a woman when everyone needs a piece of her at once.
Permission to simply be seen
Stop performing to a standard built for someone else's life, and start living fully as the woman you already are.
What's inside these pages
A mirror, a deep breath, and permission to finally exhale.
The weight you've never named
Why the invisible load women carry is so heavy, and how naming it out loud changes everything.
Setting down the guilt, not the dream
How to release the constant feeling of falling short without letting go of the life and work you love.
The faith that holds you together
The quiet strength and grounded faith that steady a woman when everyone needs a piece of her at once.
Permission to simply be seen
Stop performing to a standard built for someone else's life — and start living fully as the woman you already are.
Why this book, why now
Three things this book gives you
Three things this
book gives you
01
See Yourself On The Page
The juggling, the exhaustion, the fierce love, the obsession, finally named out loud, exactly as you've lived it. You are not imagining how much you carry.
02
Release The Guilt
Stop measuring your worth against a standard that was never built for your life. Trade the pressure to do it all for the freedom to do what matters.
03
Walk Forward In Faith
Rediscover the strength, peace, and confidence that were yours all along, and step into a season where you feel whole again.
"I didn't write this book to tell you to do more. I wrote it for every woman who has done everything, and still quietly wondered if it was enough. It is more than enough and you are enough.
"I didn't write this book to tell you to do more. I wrote it for every woman who has done everything, and still quietly wondered if it was enough. It is more than enough and you are enough.
— Hasmik Rakijian
Is this you?
This book is for you if…
This book is for you if…
You're the one everyone leans on, and lately you've been quietly running on empty.
You love your work and your family, and you're tired of feeling like you have to choose between them.
You've done everything "right" and still feel unappreciated. There must be more.
You're ready to trade guilt for grace, and exhaustion for a steadier kind of strength.
Early praise
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
"Reading this felt like Hasmik had been quietly watching my life. For the first time, I didn't feel like I was failing — I felt understood. Every woman who has ever tried to do it all needs these pages."
"Reading this felt like Hasmik had been quietly watching my life. For the first time, I didn't feel like I was failing, I felt understood. Every woman who has ever tried to do it all needs these pages."
— Maria G., Early Reader
Meet Hasmik
About the Author
About the Author
Hasmik Rakijian is a faith-based life coach, author, speaker, and the founder of Anointed Healing Pathway. For years as a businesswoman, manager, corporate controller and CFO, she lived the very story she wrote carrying career, motherhood, and everything in between, while quietly wondering when it would finally be her turn to feel whole.
In her raw and authentic memoir, But She's Not a Guy, Hasmik gives words to the weight so many women carry in silence, and walks beside them on the path back to clarity, peace, and confidence, guided by faith and hard-won wisdom.
She writes for the woman who does it all… and is finally ready to feel unconflicted and aligned with her own values.
Hasmik Rakijian is a faith-based life coach, author, speaker, and the founder of Anointed Healing Pathway. For years as a businesswoman, manager, corporate controller and CFO, she lived the very story she wrote carrying career, motherhood, and everything in between, while quietly wondering when it would finally be her turn to feel whole.
In her raw and authentic memoir, But She's Not a Guy, Hasmik gives words to the weight so many women carry in silence, and walks beside them on the path back to clarity, peace, and confidence, guided by faith and hard-won wisdom.
She writes for the woman who does it all… and is finally ready to feel unconflicted and aligned with her own values.
Hasmik Rakijian
Hasmik Rakijian
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